Wondering Things Into Reality ~ Remember Your Tools & Gifts. Value & Engage Your Parts


To wander is to live in wonder and I’m definitely a wonderer. But I wonder things into reality. 

That hasn’t always been the case, although I used to do this unconsciously when I was younger. Then, my life became compartmentalized and for some time, actually, quite tormenting and/or draining because I conditioned myself to believe that the parts of me couldn’t live unified together, always.

I became masterful at the art of living separate lives that made perfect sense to me.

Now, I’m learning to master the art of living, period, which is possible through exquisite balance when we start to merge all of our parts back onto the same stream of experience and realize how they were meant to be great allies.

I’ve been refining the process of merging the two into a grounded reality where the magickal is manifested and no longer hidden away just for me. 

It take practice, commitment, and consistency. 

It’s been an organic, trial and patience process of relaxing more into my natural essence, which involves seeing all of my parts and unique ways of expression as valuable. Not some being better than the others, but how they each amplify and bring out the best in one another, just as we can as compassionate beings do for our fellow humans.

It’s been about loving the complexity and diversity and not hiding away simply because others are doing differently than me.

But it’s also been about actively engaging my parts – all of them – and finding ways that they can all have their place without neglecting, bashing, judging, or repressing the others. Even if it’s in simple forms that can later translate across the board once I feel more comfortable with it.

This has also involved a willingness and active intention to remember and utilize my tools – something I have seeded as reminder over and over in past shares, as I personally know how it can often get overlooked.

When you feel stressed in life, unclear, or desiring to create something new, have you remembered some of the tools you have in your toolbox to implement? Have you remembered how you’ve gotten through similar experiences with success, and so can you also use that same process for the present ones?

Every person has some kind of track record with something in their lives they’ve managed to manifest, make work, fulfill, and be successful with. No matter how big or small, there is something we can draw upon and focus on, rather than placing all of our attention, energy and focus only on the things that haven’t gone as planned.

I can’t tell you how often I’ve listened to people frustrated, but when I ask them if they have used or engaged something they learned or love (ex: self Reiki treatments, the all-powerful Reiki Healing Attunements, creative visualization, meditation, breath work, engaging their creativity, spending time in nature, dancing, hiking, walking, singing, building something with their hands, volunteering, etc.) the answer always is, “no, I forgot” or “I didn’t think about that” or “I wouldn’t have thought that would help. I just feel so tired or angry.”

One of the ways I believe we can wonder things into reality is to merge our tools, parts, and gifts. While you’re actively engaging certain aspects of your life, why not invite in and actively engage the others to support them?

If you want to experience more peace at work, perhaps a Reiki Healing Attunement with that intention might help, or finding ways to bring more peace into your life by doing things you love or being in nature when you’re not at work can help balance things out for you and say to the Universe that you’re ready for it and creating it regardless of other things going on in life. Then you may start to see a shift and reflection of this act of empowerment.

If you’d like to draw in a new job, relationship, child, home, etc. perhaps engaging your creative energy can get the wheels moving. If rather than sitting still feeling hopeless around it or just thinking about your desire, you instead decided to pick up a paintbrush and just start throwing some paint around on a canvas, you might find that this act of inviting creative energy to flow and giving yourself permission to express yourself in some form, might then open the door to new in other areas as well. It’s the act of that says yes and merges your parts to manifest.

One way I find extremely potent is to move creative energy through your vehicle – you.

This could be through things like writing, painting, singing, or even taking a walk while you allow your imagination to run wild as you enjoy the sights and sounds around you.

I’ve learned to do walking meditations, active intentions, send healing energy, and channel ideas while I hike. While my body is occupied with the trail and moving me from one place to another, my mind, imagination and heart focus on what I want to create, draw in, receive, or flow out. This is one example of a merging of parts – both of myself and my life – so they are not compartmentalized. I find this to add extra powerful intent and energy to things. I’ve also done similar with sound moving through my throat chakra when I’ve felt stuck with something – it opens the creative energy flow channels and rebalances my body. New energy is welcomed in, as I move out the old.

Returning to your creative nature is the act of being creative. And creativity is the movement of energy and expression in a way that transforms imagination into reality and/or to create new methods in life.

It doesn’t have to be complicated. We just have to remember and give ourselves permission to open these doors. Then the energy will begin to flood through.

It’s never too late. It’s never lost.

You will find yourself wondering things into reality little by little until the organic process becomes your art of living.

About Tania Marie's Blog

Creating life as a work of art with a magick rabbit by my side. I remember my song. Do you? Artist, Author and Reiki Master Teacher with over 30 years' experience in creative healing arts and metaphysical studies. Tania inspires people globally to return to natural harmony, draw forth imagination to manifest dreams, embody creative empowerment, and live more magickally and abundantly from their most natural frequency – in essence, Tania helps you to remember your song.

Posted on July 27, 2020, in Uncategorized. Bookmark the permalink. 11 Comments.

  1. Reblogged this on Blue Dragon Journal.

  2. More wise and loving goodness. Thank you Tania for sharing these life lessons. ❤

  3. Well written and expressed with an energy that allows one to set their sail and explore. You made a statement that I have experienced about people not using tools that are available. I believe the practice has to come before the chaos. We are habitual by nature. It is hard to go to something you have never gone to. Writing for me is therapeutic and it is a go-to move for me. I tell my clients, they won’t change until the pain of staying the same, become greater than the fear of changing. thanks for sharing!!!

    • thank you so much! writing is a great healing experience for me too! and i agree…practice supports one in times of unknown and fear to draw upon something more familiar. i also believe it’s never to late and sometimes, as you said, if the pain becomes greater than the fear or if it’s just timely, then pulling from the toolbox and exploring may feel more possible and inviting. i have also seen people who have used the tools in the past more regularly, then got away from it when they got stressed and busy and simply forgot. so the gentle reminders ignite a remembrance that isn’t always easy to see/remember when feeling inundated. you always have great things to share and open up as exploration! ❤

  4. Channel ideas while hiking ….yes the journal is more useful during my walks etc…love it

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