The Tragedy of Denying Feelings

renewalHumans have learned to fear feeling….to deny the wisdom of the body and senses and worship the mind solely.

As a result of being out of touch with their senses, people walk through life completely oblivious to their surroundings and the impact their choices and footprint create on the environment and everyone and everything in it, as a whole.

It’s as if feeling is a foreign invader that we either don’t want to know about (ignorance is bliss) or we want to completely eradicate altogether.

We’re taught to narrow our attention and always obsess over the future, while clinging tightly to the past. But this merely leaves us unable to function in the fullness of who we are in the present.

And, in so doing, we rely on others and so-called “experts” and “authority” figures to make decisions for us. It is a way to not take responsibility with a convenient excuse that we’re too busy or haven’t the ability to understand how we truly feel in order to even make a choice or have an opinion.

So it becomes easier to allow others to choose that for us.

People have run away from authenticity of feeling and replaced this with surrender to what is socially acceptable.

And what does this create?

A build up of explosive, unexpressed feelings that get triggered when you least expect it, and all versions of suppressive and numbing substances and behaviors to stuff those feelings even more deeply.

And then blame is attached to these secondary reasons for our suppression…all simply due to our learning to deny emotional feelings and messaging and continuing to accept that this is acceptable.

Come back to yourself.

Embrace every emotion and sensory feeling, as therein lies the gift of your humanity.


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Tania Marie is a writer, visionary artist, Reiki Master Teacher, intuitive guide, and energy alchemist whose life and work have grown from more than three decades of exploring the creative healing arts, metaphysical studies, and the living relationship between nature, spirit, and the heart. Her practice has become less about what she does and more about how she lives—listening deeply, following what feels alive, and allowing creativity, healing, and everyday experience to become part of the art of being. She is the author of *Spiritual Skin* and creator of the 11-episode YouTube series *Talks With Crystal Skulls*. Her lifelong relationship with crystals and crystal skulls continues quietly behind the scenes, while her deep connection with rabbits has profoundly shaped the way she experiences presence, wonder, and the quiet language of the heart. Egypt has also become one of Tania's greatest teachers and a profound part of her ongoing journey of remembrance, empowerment, and embodied aliveness. Her relationship with the land has naturally grown into meaningful creative partnerships and opportunities to share its living wisdom with others. Today, Tania devotes much of her time to writing, photography, inspired offerings, sacred journeys, and following the ever-evolving invitations of a life lived in relationship with the living world.

Posted on July 6, 2014, in Uncategorized and tagged , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 19 Comments.

  1. Reblogged this on Ascension Angels and commented:
    Honey, I couldn’t agree more… thank you Tania Marie 🙂

  2. Yes, yes, yes! Thank you Tania for voicing this truth. Feelers that allow any feelings that come up and acknowledging this feelings as well as choosing how and if to act on them are now thriving. Choose to feel.

  3. The first thing an external authority will do is separate the self from parts of themselves, which then causes self to become dependent and controllable by the authority.

  4. Reblogged this on Reiki Dawn and commented:
    Choose to feel and thrive. Love this post by Tania Marie

  5. PS everyone was born a feeler. We are feelers innately. Being a feeler is no longer something to hide or be ashamed of. Feeling strengthens and empowers. Much love.

  6. I needed to read this today. Thank you. I hope you are having a super Sunday. Hugs from Arizona….

  7. Reblogged this on Laura Bruno's Blog and commented:
    So true!

  8. That is it in a nut shell 😉

  9. even though most of what i have been feeling is anger lately, i so much appreciate this post because it validates. thank you.

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